Relationship Wisdom

Ladies, I’m sharing these words of  Relationship Wisdom to help you avoid being with a counterfeit. Let’s remind ourselves of these essential principles to safeguard our hearts and minds:

1. Never give a man money.
2. Never give your body away unless there’s a commitment.
3. Never fight a woman over a man.
4. Never let a man drive your car.
5. Never let a man claim your child on taxes.
6. Never move in with a man.
7. Never take him back after he cheated.
8. Never tell a man the kind of man you are looking for.
9. Never tell a man your traumas too early.
10. Never believe in potential.

Reflecting on these principles, we find wisdom in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NIV):
“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”

Guidance for Men

Gentlemen, here are some principles to help you build strong, respectful, and loving relationships:

1. Always respect a woman’s boundaries.
2. Be honest and transparent in your intentions.
3. Value and protect her emotional well-being.
4. Support her dreams and ambitions.
5. Communicate openly and listen actively.
6. Show appreciation and gratitude regularly.
7. Lead with integrity and faithfulness.
8. Prioritize building a spiritual connection.
9. Take responsibility for your actions.
10. Love her unconditionally, as Christ loves the church.

Ephesians 5:25 (NIV) reminds us:

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

Reflecting on Relationship Wisdom Principles

For Women

• Financial Boundaries: Never give a man money. This principle helps maintain respect and prevents financial manipulation.
• Physical Boundaries: Never give your body away unless there’s a commitment. This ensures your worth is valued and respected.
• Emotional Boundaries: Never fight a woman over a man. This maintains dignity and self-respect.
• Material Boundaries: Never let a man drive your car or claim your child on taxes. These protect your assets and responsibilities.
• Living Arrangements: Never move in with a man unless there’s a solid foundation. This ensures stability and commitment.
• Trust and Forgiveness: Never take him back after he cheated. This upholds self-respect and trust.
• Communication Boundaries: Never tell a man the kind of man you are looking for or your traumas too early. This protects your vulnerability.
• Realistic Expectations: Never believe in potential alone. Ensure actions match words and intentions.

For Men

• Respect and Boundaries: Always respect a woman’s boundaries to build trust and mutual respect.
• Honesty and Transparency: Be honest and transparent in your intentions to foster a strong foundation.
• Emotional Support: Value and protect her emotional well-being, showing empathy and care.
• Encouragement: Support her dreams and ambitions, encouraging her growth and success.
• Effective Communication: Communicate openly and listen actively to understand and connect deeply.
• Gratitude: Show appreciation and gratitude regularly, acknowledging her contributions and presence.
• Integrity: Lead with integrity and faithfulness to build a lasting and trustworthy relationship.
• Spiritual Connection: Prioritize building a spiritual connection to strengthen your bond.
• Responsibility: Take responsibility for your actions, showing maturity and reliability.
• Unconditional Love: Love her unconditionally, as Christ loves the church, demonstrating deep and abiding love.

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Embrace Your Divine Purpose

In a world filled with counterfeits, safeguarding your heart and mind is crucial. By adhering to these principles, you protect your spirit and align yourself with God’s plan. For men and women alike, understanding and practicing these guidelines fosters healthy, respectful, and loving relationships.

Prayer

Lord, help us to live by these principles, honoring you in our relationships and daily lives. Guide us to recognize true love and avoid counterfeits. Amen.

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